Law 13: When Asking for Help, Appeal to... - Deepstash

Law 13: When Asking for Help, Appeal to Self-Interest—Never Mercy/Gratitude

MEANING❄️

People help when it benefits them🎯➕. Show how they gain by helping you, not just by being kind ❤️.

EXAMPLE🪶

Anil needs support for his project 📂🆘 . Instead of asking for help as a favor, he explains how the project will also benefit his coworker, Raju 💼✨ .Raju agrees quickly👍⚡.

LESSON

  1. ✨People respond better when they see a benefit for themselves👀💎.
  2.   ✨Focus on their interests, not on your needs or emotions 🎯🧠❌💔 .

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