That's a powerful insight. It’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others in ways that boost our ego, but true growth comes from using others as sources of inspiration, not validation. When we learn from others, we adopt their strengths and perspectives, which helps us become better versions of ourselves—rather than just feeling better about where we are. It’s about growth, not comparison.
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