Hidden Payoffs of Holding On

Insight: We often choose suffering because it offers identity, story, or moral high ground. Letting go means relinquishing even the ego’s favorite suffering.

🧭 Recalibration #5: From Justified Pain to Undeniable Peace

“I outgrow pain disguised as power. I no longer fuel what limits me, even if it once defined me.”

Self-Audit Prompt:

➤ What subtle ‘benefit’ am I extracting from not letting go of this grievance?