We read to understand, or to begin to understand

Each book you read not only teaches something new, but also open up different ways of thinking old ideas. As Warren Buffett says 'That's how knowledge works. It builds up like, compound interest'.

"Reading is an activity of civilized beings.

The only way to do all the things you did like to do is to read.

In my whole life, I have known no wise people (over a broad subject matter area) who didn't read all the time - none, zero.

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Personal Development

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Motivation & Inspiration

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Reading & Writing

Motivational Quotes For Reading Books

I used to say ‘I sure hope things will change.’ Then I learned that the only way things are going to change for me is when I change.01•06•25

You have two choices. You can make a living or design a life.01•07•25

You can not mistake courtesy for interest 01•08•2025

Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want 01•09•2025

Society will let you get by with far less than you want to be 01•10•2025

You are the average of the five people you spend time with 01•11•2025

Find places with opportunities not restrictions 01•12•2025

If you don’t like how things are, change it. You are not a tree01•13•2025

You don’t get paid for the hour. You get paid for the value you bring to the hour 01•14•2025

Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment 01•15•2025

We’re all equal in souls but not in the marketplace 01•16•2025

If you will change, everything will change for you 01•17•2025

Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better 01•18•2025

Either you run the day or the day runs you01•19•2025

You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with 01•20•2025

Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change 01•21•2025

Jimmy and his greatness , adding a new quote daily !

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Psychology

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Philosophy

The Best of Jim Rohn

Coping with negativity requires grounding and intentionality. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” You can’t avoid all negativity, but you can approach it with spiritual strength. Ground yourself in God’s peace, maintain your integrity, and redirect your focus toward uplifting thoughts. With practice, you can thrive even in challenging environments.

Coping In Negative Environments

Gossip may seem harmless, but it carries weight. Proverbs 16:28 reminds us: “A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.” Gossip fosters division, mistrust, and judgment. Choosing not to engage protects your peace and integrity. Instead of being pulled into harmful conversations, focus on creating uplifting interactions and modeling kindness and respect.

Gossip Is Not A “Good Time”

Forgiveness frees you from the burden of bitterness. Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34). Forgiveness isn’t about excusing harmful behavior; it’s about releasing yourself from its grip. Letting go of resentment creates space for peace and spiritual growth. Forgiveness is not a gift you give others—it’s a gift you give yourself.

Forgiveness: The Key to Freedom

Gossip can feel heavy, but forgiveness lightens the load. Forgiving others for gossiping allows you to see their actions as a reflection of their struggles, not yours. If you’ve engaged in gossip, forgive yourself and refocus. Psalm 103:12 says, “As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.” Forgiveness helps you detach emotionally and maintain your peace.

How Forgiveness Ties Into Dealing With Gossip

Staying grounded in peace requires daily intention. Philippians 4:8 says, “Whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable—think about such things.” Focus on gratitude, prayer, and uplifting thoughts when negativity creeps in. Redirecting your energy toward what is good keeps you aligned with God’s peace and allows you to maintain flow in challenging environments.

How To Maintain Peace And Flow

Navigating gossip requires spiritual and emotional strategies, such as grounding yourself daily, setting boundaries, and using empathy. Ephesians 6:11 reminds us, “Put on the full armor of God.” Visualize a shield of light around you, and gently redirect conversations when gossip arises. Surround yourself with like-minded people who uplift you and reflect your values. These tools protect your peace and keep you spiritually aligned.The following cards provide practical steps to help you stay grounded and aligned in any environment.

Practical Tools for Navigating Gossip

Grounding yourself each morning creates a strong foundation for peace. Start your day with prayer, meditation, or scripture to connect with God and strengthen your heart. Visualize being rooted in God’s love, allowing His strength to flow through you as you face challenges.Psalm 1:3 says, “That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither—whatever they do prospers.” Grounding strengthens your connection to God, making you resilient no matter the challenges ahead. A grounded spirit is unshakable.

Ground Yourself Daily

Boundaries protect your peace without isolating you from others. A kind statement like, “I’d rather not talk about this,” sets limits while maintaining relationships. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Boundaries help you honor your values and keep your focus on what aligns with God’s peace.

Set Boundaries Without Isolation

Spiritual protection shields your energy from negativity. Visualize a glowing shield of light around you and pray for God’s guidance. For example, “Lord, guide and protect my heart and mind today. Let no unkind word take root within me.”Psalm 19:14 says, “May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer.” A daily spiritual practice like prayer, meditation and visualization, and consistent affirmation of scripture protects your heart and mind, ensuring negativity doesn’t take root.

Practice Spiritual Protection

Empathy transforms negativity. Gossip often stems from insecurity or pain. A question like, “Is something bothering you?” can redirect conversations and foster healing. Ephesians 4:29 reminds us: “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up.” Empathy disrupts gossip and brings light into dark situations.

Use Empathy as a Disruptor

When negativity arises, shift your focus to what is good. Philippians 4:8 encourages: “Whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable—think about such things.” Gratitude and prayer help realign your energy. Negativity loses its power when you choose to center your thoughts on God’s peace and the blessings around you.

Redirect Your Focus

Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Surround yourself with people who reflect your values and uplift your spirit. While you can’t always choose your environment, nurturing relationships with like-minded individuals strengthens your faith and reinforces your spiritual foundation.

Surround Yourself With Like-Mindedness

Gossip and negativity are opportunities to practice grace, forgiveness, and grounding. Matthew 5:14 reminds us, “You are the light of the world.” By choosing peace and walking in God’s love, you transform not only yourself but the spaces you inhabit. Keep showing up with intention, and trust that even small acts of grace have a lasting impact.

Closing Thoughts

Navigating gossip and negativity requires grounding, empathy, and forgiveness. Learn practical tools to protect your peace, set boundaries, and transform challenging environments with grace.

Over the last few weeks, we’ve explored tools for grounding, protecting your energy, and deepening your connection to God in everyday life. Today, we’re diving into a topic that touches so many of us: how to maintain your peace and spiritual flow in environments filled with gossip and negativity. Whether it’s at work, with friends,…

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Religion & Spirituality

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Health

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Mental Health

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Meditation

Sunday Sessions: Gossip, Energy, and the Role of Forgiveness

Switch provides a practical framework for implementing lasting change, blending psychology and real-world examples.

The Rider (rational mind) plans, the Elephant (emotional mind) drives energy, and the Path (environment) facilitates change. Successful change aligns all three.	• “For things to change, somebody somewhere has to start acting differently.”

Understand the Rider, Elephant & The Path

Avoid overwhelming the Rider with analysis paralysis. Provide specific, actionable directions for clarity.	• Instead of “be healthier,” set goals like “walk 20 minutes daily.”	• “What looks like resistance is often a lack of clarity.”

Direct the Rider with Clear Goals

Focus on what’s already working and replicate it instead of solving problems from scratch.	•	A malnourished community improved health by identifying families with healthier habits.	•	“Bright spots are your best chance for change.”

Find Bright Spots

Facts alone don’t inspire action. Use emotional appeals to energize the Elephant.	•	A moving video about a cause may prompt donations better than raw statistics.	•	“You have to speak to the Elephant’s heart, not just the Rider’s mind.”

Motivate the Elephant by Evoking Emotions

Break daunting tasks into manageable steps to make them less intimidating.	• Instead of saving $10,000, start with $5 a day.	• “Small wins create momentum.”

Shrink the Change

Simplify processes and remove barriers to encourage desired behavior.	•	Laying out workout clothes the night before increases the likelihood of exercising.	•	“What looks like laziness is often exhaustion.”

Shape the Path by Tweaking The Environment

Tie new behaviors to existing routines or specific cues to create automaticity.	•	Brush teeth right after breakfast instead of randomly during the day.	•	“Action triggers are the secret weapon of change.”

Build Habits with Action Triggers

People tend to follow the crowd. Highlight positive social norms to foster change.	• Noting that most guests reuse towels increases hotel compliance rates.	•	“When people see others doing the right thing, they’re more likely to join in.”

Rally the Herd for Social Influence

Identify and focus on pivotal actions rather than broad aspirations.	•	Instead of “lose weight,” focus on eating vegetables at every meal.	•	“Clarity dissolves resistance.”

Script the Critical Moves

Recognize small achievements to keep morale high and reinforce behavior.	• Gamifying progress with rewards keeps users engaged in habit-building apps.	•	“Big changes come from small beginnings.”

Celebrate Progress to Sustain Momentum

Change isn’t easy, but by aligning rationality, emotion, and the environment, success becomes achievable. Switch offers a roadmap to navigate personal and organizational transformations with optimism and strategy.

Master the art of change with Switch—a guide to aligning logic, emotion, and environment for success!

Why is it so hard to make lasting changes in our companies, in our communities, and in our own lives? The primary obstacle is a conflict that's built into our brains, say Chip and Dan Heath, authors of the critically acclaimed bestseller Made to Stick. Psychologists have discovered that our minds are ruled by two different systems - the rational mind and the emotional mind—that compete for control. The rational mind wants a great beach body; the emotional mind wants that Oreo cookie. The rational mind wants to change something at work; the emotional mind loves the comfort of the existing routine. This tension can doom a change effort - but if it is overcome, change can come quickly. In Switch, the Heaths show how everyday people - employees and managers, parents and nurses - have united both minds and, as a result, achieved dramatic results: • The lowly medical interns who managed to defeat an entrenched, decades-old medical practice that was endangering patients • The home-organizing guru who developed a simple technique for overcoming the dread of housekeeping  • The manager who transformed a lackadaisical customer-support team into service zealots by removing a standard tool of customer service  In a compelling, story-driven narrative, the Heaths bring together decades of counterintuitive research in psychology, sociology, and other fields to shed new light on how we can effect transformative change. Switch shows that successful changes follow a pattern, a pattern you can use to make the changes that matter to you, whether your interest is in changing the world or changing your waistline.

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Books

Chip Heath is the professor of Organizational Behavior in the Graduate School of Business at Stanford University.He received his B.S. degree in Industrial Engineering from Texas A&M University and his Ph.D. in Psychology from Stanford.He co-wrote a book titled Switch How to Change Things When Change Is Hard with his brother Dan Heath.

Chip Heath

Dan Heath is a Senior Fellow at Duke University's CASE center. Dan has an M.B.A. from Harvard Business School, and a B.A. from the Plan II Honors Program from the University of Texas at Austin.He co-wrote a book titled Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard with his brother Chip Heath.

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Switch

Studies suggest that cold exposure boosts dopamine levels.Actionable Tip: After taking a warm shower, turn down the temperature until the water feels cold. Stand there for 30 seconds. Each week, increase the time you spend in cold water by 30 seconds until you can tolerate it for two minutes.

Take Cold Showers

Exercising in the morning activates positive chemical reactions-like dopamine release-that benefit the rest of your day.Actionable Tip: Engage in vigorous physical activity immediately after jumping out of bed. Try jogging, doing jumping jacks, or dancing. Anything is OK -as long as it makes you sweat.

Exercise

The more external stimuli you encounter, the more sensory inputs you need to release the same amount. of dopamine. Reducing these stimuli helps reset your brain so you release more dopamine naturally.Actionable Tip: Stop checking your phone in the morning! Instead, do low-stimulation activities -like journaling-immediately after waking.

Revamp Your Morning

Seeing sunlight in the morning triggers dopamine release.If it's sunny out, go outside for five to 10 minutes first thing in the morning.. If it's cloudy out, go outside for at least 30 minutes. Don't just look out the window, which filters a lot of useful light out.

Get Some Sun

Flow, the state of being totally engaged and performing at your peak, increases dopamine.Actionable Tip: Maximize your chances of achieving flow by:<ul><li>Picking a task that provides immediate feedback.</li><li>Selecting a clear goal for this task.</li><li>Working on only this task for a prolonged period.</li></ul>

Get Into Flow

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Productivity

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Exercise & Fitness

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Longevity

5 Habits That Will Boost Your Dopamine

Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness. It shows trust and openness, allowing others to connect and support you in meaningful ways.

Asking isn’t begging

When you ask, you invite trust. It’s a two-way street where you allow others to share in your struggles and successes.

Trust builds relationships

Accepting help can be hard, but it’s as important as giving. It creates a bond between people and shows gratitude for their generosity.

Learn to receive

You don’t have to be perfect to deserve support. Being honest and vulnerable helps create deeper, more authentic connections.

Connection over perfection

Art thrives when shared. Asking for support allows artists to focus on creating, while giving others the chance to be part of the process.

Art and giving are linked

Opening up about your needs is brave, not weak. Vulnerability fosters empathy and encourages others to open up too.

Vulnerability is strength

Support often comes from a community that believes in you. Building and nurturing these relationships is key to thriving together.

Community is everything

When people help you, it’s not just about money or material goods—it’s about the value they see in you and your work.

Value exchanges matter

Not everyone will say yes, and that’s okay. Focus on the people who support you instead of dwelling on the ones who don’t.

Don’t fear rejection

Gratitude strengthens relationships. Thank the people who help you—it reminds them that their support matters and makes them feel appreciated.

Practice gratitude

When you ask, be genuine and clear about what you need. Authenticity makes others more likely to respond with kindness.

Ask with honesty

Artists and their audiences share a special relationship built on trust. The artist asks, and the audience supports because they believe in the art.

Art thrives on trust

It’s scary to be vulnerable, but asking builds resilience. It helps you grow and pushes you to face fears of judgment or rejection.

Asking takes courage

Help often comes from unexpected places. Be open to receiving support from people

Support can surprise you

When you’re helped, you can later help others. Asking and giving create a cycle of kindness that uplifts everyone.

Support is a cycle

You don’t have to give endlessly to prove your value. Sometimes, just asking for what you need shows your true worth.

Your worth isn’t tied to giving

Rock star, crowdfunding pioneer, and TED speaker Amanda Palmer knows all about asking. Performing as a living statue in a wedding dress, she wordlessly asked thousands of passersby for their dollars. When she became a singer, songwriter, and musician, she was not afraid to ask her audience to support her as she surfed the crowd (and slept on their couches while touring). And when she left her record label to strike out on her own, she asked her fans to support her in making an album, leading to the world's most successful music Kickstarter. Even while Amanda is both celebrated and attacked for her fearlessness in asking for help, she finds that there are important things she cannot ask for-as a musician, as a friend, and as a wife. She learns that she isn't alone in this, that so many people are afraid to ask for help, and it paralyzes their lives and relationships. In this groundbreaking book, she explores these barriers in her own life and in the lives of those around her, and discovers the emotional, philosophical, and practical aspects of The Art of Asking. Part manifesto, part revelation, this is the story of an artist struggling with the new rules of exchange in the twenty-first century, both on and off the Internet. The Art of Asking will inspire readers to rethink their own ideas about asking, giving, art, and love.

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Habits

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Society, Arts & Culture

Amanda Palmer

The Art of Asking

In James, Percival Everett masterfully unpacks themes of identity, existential questions, and the human experience.

James, the protagonist, is portrayed as an everyman, reflecting the struggles and contradictions of identity. Everett uses him as a canvas to explore societal expectations and personal authenticity. 	“We are not what we think we are, but what others perceive us to be.”

The Enigma of James

James embarks on a journey to understand the purpose of his life, mirroring the universal quest for meaning. Everett asks, what drives us to seek purpose in the first place? 	“Purpose is a construct we chase to fill the void of existence.”

The Search for Meaning

The book emphasizes that identity is not fixed but fluid, shaped by experiences and relationships. James evolves as he navigates his past and present. 	“Identity is not a destination but a lifelong journey of becoming.”

Identity as a Fluid Construct

James grapples with societal, familial, and personal expectations, often feeling trapped. Everett critiques the pressures that mold individuals into roles they may not choose. 	“Expectations are the cages we build with the keys of approval.”

The Weight of Expectations

Relationships in James’ life serve as mirrors, showing him parts of himself he wouldn’t otherwise see. Everett highlights the importance of others in self-discovery. 	“It is through others that we learn who we are.”

Interpersonal Relationships

James frequently revisits his past, showing how memory shapes identity. However, Everett reminds readers that memory can be unreliable and selective. 	“Memory is a mosaic of truth and fiction, pieced together by desire.”

The Role of Memory

Everett uses humor throughout the book to tackle heavy themes, showing how James—and humanity at large—uses wit to process pain and absurdity. 	“Laughter is not just an escape but a lens to view life’s absurdities.”

Humor as a Coping Mechanism

Mortality looms as James reflects on his life’s meaning. Everett explores the fear, acceptance, and lessons that come with confronting one’s finitude. 	“Mortality is the compass that points us to what truly matters.”

Confronting Mortality

Everett’s prose emphasizes the power and limitations of language. James struggles to articulate his emotions, showcasing how words shape and fail human experience. 	“Language is both our bridge to connection and our barrier to understanding.”

Language as Power

James desires freedom but is also burdened by his responsibilities. Everett examines how the two coexist and conflict in modern life. 	“Freedom is not the absence of responsibility but its mindful embrace.”

The Dichotomy of Freedom & Responsibility

Art plays a subtle yet powerful role, representing a means of self-expression and understanding for James. Everett suggests that creativity is a pathway to self-discovery. 	“To create is to see the soul in its rawest form.”

The Impact of Art & Creation

James navigates moral dilemmas that challenge black-and-white views of right and wrong. Everett highlights the nuances of ethical decision-making. 	“Morality is not a rulebook but a reflection of context and intent.”

The Complexity of Morality

James’ story is deeply personal yet resonates on a societal level. Everett bridges the gap between individual struggles and collective human experiences. 	“We are unique stories written on the same shared canvas.”

The Intersection of Individual And Collective

Despite setbacks, James shows resilience, adapting to change and learning from failure. Everett paints adaptability as a core human strength. 	“Resilience is not about enduring but transforming in the face of change.”

Resilience & Adaptability

The book closes with an open-ended view of James’ journey, reinforcing that life’s value lies in its process, not its end. 	“The beauty of life is not in arriving but in the steps we take along the way.”

The Journey, Not the Destination

James by Percival Everett is a deeply philosophical exploration of identity, meaning, and connection. Through humor, sharp insights, and a deeply human protagonist, Everett invites readers to reflect on their own lives while following James on his compelling journey.

Explore James by Percival Everett—a witty, profound dive into identity, purpose, and human connection.

A brilliant, action-packed reimagining of The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, both harrowing and ferociously funny, told from the enslaved Jim's point of view. • From the “cult literary icon” (Oprah Daily), Pulitzer Prize Finalist, and one of the most decorated writers of our lifetime When the enslaved Jim overhears that he is about to be sold to a man in New Orleans, separated from his wife and daughter forever, he decides to hide on nearby Jackson Island until he can formulate a plan. Meanwhile, Huck Finn has faked his own death to escape his violent father, recently returned to town. As all readers of American literature know, thus begins the dangerous and transcendent journey by raft down the Mississippi River toward the elusive and too-often-unreliable promise of the Free States and beyond. While many narrative set pieces of The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn remain in place (floods and storms, stumbling across both unexpected death and unexpected treasure in the myriad stopping points along the river’s banks, encountering the scam artists posing as the Duke and Dauphin…), Jim’s agency, intelligence and compassion are shown in a radically new light. Brimming with the electrifying humor and lacerating observations that have made Everett a “cult literary icon” (Oprah Daily), and one of the most decorated writers of our lifetime, James is destined to be a major publishing event and a cornerstone of twenty-first century American literature.

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Love & Relationships

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James

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