The importance of embracing vulnerability as a means to connect with others and experience true belonging. Let go of the fear of being imperfect and to allow themselves to be seen.

Embracing Vulnerability

We should be authentic and genuine in our interactions and relationships. Brown emphasizes that embracing our true selves and being comfortable in our own skin is key to living a fulfilling life.

Cultivating Authenticity

Perfectionism is rooted in the fear of not being enough, we should let go of unrealistic standards and embrace our imperfections.

Letting Go of Perfectionism

We should treat ourselves with kindness, understanding, and forgiveness, acknowledging that everyone makes mistakes and faces challenges.

Cultivating Self-Compassion

Setbacks and failures are a part of life, and resilience allows us to bounce back and grow stronger from those experiences.

Nurturing Resilience

The book delves into the concept of shame and its impact on our lives. Brown suggests that shame can be overcome by embracing vulnerability, practicing self-compassion, and cultivating a sense of joy and gratitude.

Letting Go of Shame and Embracing Joy

The book emphasizes the significance of building and nurturing meaningful connections with others. Brown encourages readers to engage in genuine and open communication, establish boundaries, and surround themselves with supportive and authentic relationships.

Cultivating Meaningful Relationships

Ultimately, the book encourages readers to embrace who they are, imperfections and all, and to live a wholehearted life characterized by authenticity, vulnerability, and self-compassion.

Living a Wholehearted Life

'This important book is about the lifelong journey from 'What will people think?' to 'I am enough.' Brown's unique ability to blend original research with honest storytelling makes reading The Gifts of Imperfection like having a long, uplifting conversation with a very wise friend who offers compassion, wisdom, and great advice.' —Harriet Lerner, New York Times best-selling author of The Dance of Anger and The Dance of Connection'Brené Brown courageously tackles the dark emotions that get in the way of leading a fuller life; read this book and let some of that courage rub off on you.' —Daniel H. Pink, New York Times best-selling author of A Whole New Mind'Courage, compassion, and connection: Through Brené's research, observations, and guidance, these three little words can open the door to amazing change in your life.' —Ali Edwards, author of Life ArtistIn The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, a leading expert on shame, authenticity, and belonging, shares ten guideposts on the power of Wholehearted living—a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness.Each day we face a barrage of images and messages from society and the media telling us who, what, and how we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only look perfect and lead perfect lives, we'd no longer feel inadequate. So most of us perform, please, and perfect, all the while thinking, What if I can't keep all of these balls in the air? Why isn't everyone else working harder and living up to my expectations? What will people think if I fail or give up? When can I stop proving myself?In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, Ph.D., a leading expert on shame, authenticity and belonging, shares what she's learned from a decade of research on the power of Wholehearted Living – a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness. In her ten guideposts, Brown engages our minds, hearts, and spirits as she explores how we can cultivate the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough, And to go to bed at night thinking, Yes, I am sometimes afraid, but I am also brave. And, yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable, but that doesn't change the truth that I am worthy of love and belonging.

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Psychology

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Religion & Spirituality

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Communication

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Love & Relationships

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Books

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • This tenth-anniversary edition of the game-changing #1 New York Times bestseller features a new foreword and new tools to make the work your own. For over a decade, Brené Brown has found a special place in our hearts as a gifted mapmaker and a fellow traveler. She is both a social scientist and a kitchen-table friend whom you can always count on to tell the truth, make you laugh, and, on occasion, cry with you. And what’s now become a movement all started with The Gifts of Imperfection, which has sold more than two million copies in thirty-five different languages across the globe. What transforms this book from words on a page to effective daily practices are the ten guideposts to wholehearted living. The guideposts not only help us understand the practices that will allow us to change our lives and families, they also walk us through the unattainable and sabotaging expectations that get in the way. Brené writes, “This book is an invitation to join a wholehearted revolution. A small, quiet, grassroots movement that starts with each of us saying, ‘My story matters because I matter.’ Revolution might sound a little dramatic, but in this world, choosing authenticity and worthiness is an absolute act of resistance.”

Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor at the University of Houston where she holds the Huffington Foundation – Brené Brown Endowed Chair at The Graduate College of Social Work. Brené is also a visiting professor in management at The University of Texas at Austin McCombs School of Business. She has spent the past two decades studying courage, vulnerability, shame, and empathy and is the author of five #1 New York Times bestsellers: The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly, Rising Strong, Braving the Wilderness, and her latest book, Dare to Lead.Brené hosts the Unlocking Us Podcast and the Dare to Lead Podcast. Her TED talk – The Power of Vulnerability – is one of the top five most viewed TED talks in the world with over 50 million views.

Brené Brown

The Gifts of Imperfection

TRY In this life, everyone has a challenges and one should face it no matter no succeed or not.LEARN You cannot Fly if you haven't Fall, You can Fly if you had Fall. Mistakes are part not the Results make those to your learnings.PLAN Make goals, to-do, risks, how-to, what-if.BREAK Take a Break, when things doesn't work, time isn't good, and Restart after getting motivated and strategies.

Take the steps and keep moving 

It's the most basic thing first have to do, don't think how can it be helpful or problematics.In schools we do learn almost everything, so many subjects right but not everything is useful to you but it gives us a sense what is it and what to choose next of this.When you try things, you get a taste of this and you can know you have to keep doing this or new one.

Not everything is for learning, If you do is waste of time so do know what you like, what is important and what can be helpful, highlight those and note them.Learning should be that be Remembered and worth of learning.

Learn 

If you can plan your plans, so can you track or make change in coming time. To-do What are goals you want to do, learnings, experiments, business, targets..How-to how you execute goals, your strategies, marketing, research, teamwork .What-if what if this doesn't work, what other options gonna be there.

Plan

Failure is part, Success is Result when you do things, take the breaks if required and comeback.Their gonna be time when should take a break and learn things which can be helpful, take motivation session, improve yourself and see what other doing better than you in that.If you are wrong, still you can learn that what should not do and where to improve and Restart better.

Break

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Productivity

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Problem Solving

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Leadership & Management

How to obtain what we desire

People who genuinely care about others and are motivated to help them without expecting anything in return, can achieve remarkable success in their personal and professional lives. They build stronger relationships, inspire trust, and create opportunities for collaboration.

The Power of Givers

Grant introduces the concept of reciprocity styles—givers, takers, and matchers. Takers are primarily focused on their own interests, while matchers seek to maintain an even balance between giving and taking. Although givers can often be taken advantage of, Grant shows that the most successful people are often givers because they build goodwill and foster a culture of generosity around them.

The Paradox of Givers and Takers

Helping others has a positive impact on our own well-being and success. It boosts our happiness, enhances our sense of meaning and purpose, and increases our overall life satisfaction. Additionally, givers tend to have stronger social connections and networks, which can lead to increased opportunities and access to resources.

The Benefits of Giving

The book discusses how givers can navigate the potential pitfalls of being overly self-sacrificing and falling into the "doormat" trap. Grant provides strategies to help givers set boundaries, recognize when to say no, and effectively manage their time and energy.

Strategic Giving

Organizations and leaders can foster a culture of giving to promote success and well-being among employees. By encouraging acts of generosity, recognizing and rewarding giving behaviors, and creating systems that discourage selfishness, companies can create a positive work environment and drive collective success.

Creating a Culture of Giving

Grant highlights the impact of small acts of giving and how they can create a ripple effect of positive change. By helping others, givers inspire gratitude and reciprocity, leading to a cycle of generosity that benefits both individuals and communities.

The Ripple Effect of Giving

A groundbreaking look at why our interactions with others hold the key to success, from the bestselling author of Think Again and Originals For generations, we have focused on the individual drivers of success: passion, hard work, talent, and luck. But in today’s dramatically reconfigured world, success is increasingly dependent on how we interact with others. In Give and Take, Adam Grant, an award-winning researcher and Wharton’s highest-rated professor, examines the surprising forces that shape why some people rise to the top of the success ladder while others sink to the bottom. Praised by social scientists, business theorists, and corporate leaders, Give and Take opens up an approach to work, interactions, and productivity that is nothing short of revolutionary.

Adam Grant is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Adam Grant has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Adam Grant's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

Adam Grant

Give and Take

All change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end

Many people don't wanna take the first step. It's the hardest one to take but the one you will never stop thanking yourself enough for in the future

Legendary leadership and elite performance expert Robin Sharma introduced The 5am Club concept over twenty years ago, based on a revolutionary morning routine that has helped his clients maximize their productivity, activate their best health and bulletproof their serenity in this age of overwhelming complexity.      Now, in this life-changing book, handcrafted by the author over a rigorous four-year period, you will discover the early-rising habit that has helped so many accomplish epic results while upgrading their happiness, helpfulness and feelings of aliveness.      Through an enchanting—and often amusing—story about two struggling strangers who meet an eccentric tycoon who becomes their secret mentor, The 5am Club will walk you through:<ul><li>How great geniuses, business titans and the world’s wisest people start their mornings to produce astonishing achievements</li><li>A little-known formula you can use instantly to wake up early feeling inspired, focused and flooded with a fiery drive to get the most out of each day</li><li>A step-by-step method to protect the quietest hours of daybreak so you have time for exercise, self-renewal and personal growth</li><li>A neuroscience-based practice proven to help make it easy to rise while most people are sleeping, giving you precious time for yourself to think, express your creativity and begin the day peacefully instead of being rushed</li><li>“Insider-only” tactics to defend your gifts, talents and dreams against digital distraction and trivial diversions so you enjoy fortune, influence and a magnificent impact on the world</li></ul>Part manifesto for mastery, part playbook for genius-grade productivity and part companion for a life lived beautifully, The 5am Club is a work that will transform your life. Forever.

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Philosophy

Robin Sharma is one of the world’s premier thinkers on leadership, personal growth and life management. The bestselling author of The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, Who Will Cry When You Die? and The Saint, the Surfer, and the CEO and four other books on self-transformation. Robin Sharma is in constant demand internationally as keynote speaker at the conferences of many of the most powerful companies on the planet including Microsoft, Nortel Networks, General Motors, FedEx and IBM. He is a resident of Ontario, Canada. (Barnes and Noble)

Robin S. Sharma

The 5AM Club

The brain controls us and defines our behavior.It's responsible not only for thinking, learning, and mental abilities; the brain reacts to every tiny stimulus inside the body and in the outer world.

Brain

Women and men can feel changes in their brains right after the pregnancy period starts.In male bodies: The testosterone level decreases, making them more caring.In female bodies: Prolactin provokes the desire for nesting.For mothers: These changes are permanent. The bond between a child and its mother is a biological necessity for survival, prompted by oxytocin (the love hormone).

Brains During Pregnancy

The mother's habits and the environment are crucial for the baby's development.The bad habits cause damage to the baby's brain, as they may lead to depression or schizophrenia.Dieting and fasting are as harmful to a baby as drinking alcohol and smoking, as they may lead to brain disorders.

Habits & Environment

Young Picasso could barely read and write.Einstein spoke slower than others.Daniel Tammet knows by heart PI to 22 514 decimal places.These brain disorders are genetic, and numerous reasons can cause them.

Brain Disorders

Even though many feminists claim that gender is a social construct, numerous studies show that a baby determines its gender, sexual orientation, and the extent of aggression before birth.It's more likely to be caused genetically rather than by the influence of the outer world.

Gender & Sexual Orientation

What does it mean to be in a coma?A coma results from brain damage and makes a patient unresponsive to external stimulations.Doctors often say, "A coma patient is like a vegetable." They are still alive, but their brain is dead.

Coma

In contrast to coma, locked-in syndrome means that the patient's brain is still working and conscious of itself but completely paralyzed.In most cases, they can only move with their eyes, and that's the method of communication for them.

Locked-in Syndrome

95% of Americans believe in God.This belief is also fully processed in our brains.Our family and environment left information in the brain during the early years, and we adjusted to it the same way as a mother tongue.Richard Dawkins (a famous evolutionary biologist) claims that kids are affected by their religious parents because they can't think critically.

Religion

If life is a gradual development process, then Alzheimer's is a disease that causes a reverse: a person slowly loses the ability to live normally and care for themselves.Moreover, step by step, they lose their personality.The first symptoms include loss of memory or inappropriate behavior.How to prevent Alzheimer's?You can minimize your chances by maximizing brain activity, such as:<ul><li>Speaking foreign languages.</li><li>Obtaining an education.</li><li>Working a challenging job.</li><li>Stimulating your thinking and physical activities.</li></ul>

Alzheimer

People often believe that our feelings, desires, and love are in our hearts.However, they are wrong!Your personality, with its fears, dreams, ambitions, and passions, is based on your brain, while the heart only pumps blood to keep your body functioning.

Love is In Our Brain, not the Heart

The brain is the very essence of our personality and abilities. Unraveling the brain will help us understand the basis of human behavior and actions.

A vivid account of what makes us human.   Based groundbreaking new research, We Are Our Brains is a sweeping biography of the human brain, from infancy to adulthood to old age. Renowned neuroscientist D. F. Swaab takes us on a guided tour of the intricate inner workings that determine our potential, our limitations, and our desires, with each chapter serving as an eye-opening window on a different stage of brain development: the gender differences that develop in the embryonic brain, what goes on in the heads of adolescents, how parenthood permanently changes the brain.   Moving beyond pure biological understanding, Swaab presents a controversial and multilayered ethical argument surrounding the brain. Far from possessing true free will, Swaab argues, we have very little control over our everyday decisions, or who we will become, because our brains predetermine everything about us, long before we are born, from our moral character to our religious leanings to whom we fall in love with. And he challenges many of our prevailing assumptions about what makes us human, decoding the intricate “moral networks” that allow us to experience emotion, revealing maternal instinct to be the result of hormonal changes in the pregnant brain, and exploring the way that religious “imprinting” shapes the brain during childhood. Rife with memorable case studies, We Are Our Brains is already a bestselling international phenomenon. It aims to demystify the chemical and genetic workings of our most mysterious organ, in the process helping us to see who we are through an entirely new lens.   Did you know?   • The father’s brain is affected in pregnancy as well as the mother’s. • The withdrawal symptoms we experience at the end of a love affair mirror chemical addiction. • Growing up bilingual reduces the likelihood of Alzheimer’s. • Parental religion is imprinted on our brains during early development, much as our native language is. Praise for We Are Our Brains   “Swaab’s ‘neurobiography’ is witty, opinionated, passionate, and, above all, cerebral.”—Booklist (starred review)   “A fascinating survey . . . Swaab employs both personal and scientific observation in near-equal measure.”—Publishers Weekly (starred review)   “A cogent, provocative account of how twenty-first-century ‘neuroculture’ has the potential to effect profound medical and social change.”—Kirkus Reviews

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Health

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Science & Nature

D. F. Swaab

We Are Our Brains

Your personal experiences with money make up maybe 0.00000001% of what's happened in the world, but maybe 80% of how you think the world works

No One's Crazy

King Alyattes of Lydia, now part of Turkey, is thought to have created the first official currency in 600 BC. But the modern foundation of money decisions-saving and investing is based around concepts that are practically infants.

Where It Began

People do some crazy things with money. But no one is crazy. People from different generations, raised by different parents who earned different incomes and held different values, in different parts of the world, born into different economies, experiencing different job markets with different incentives and different degrees of luck, learn very different lessons. Everyone has their own unique experience with how the world works.

Crazy Or Different 

"Our findings suggest that individual investors' willingness to bear risk depends on personal history." Not intelligence, or education, or sophistication. Just the dumb luck of when and where you were born.”

Place Time People 

"What you're doing seems crazy but I kind of understand why you're doing it."-uncovers the root of many of our financial decisions.

Being Understand

Few people make financial decisions purely with a spreadsheet. They make them at the dinner table, or in a company meeting. Places where personal history, your own unique view of the world, ego, pride, marketing, and odd incentives are scrambled together into a narrative that works for you

How Decisions Are Made

Dogs were domesticated 10,000 years ago and still retain some behaviors of their wild ancestors. Yet here we are, with between 20 and 50 years of experience in the modern financial system, hoping to be perfectly acclimated.

Expectations Vs Reality 

We all do crazy stuff with money, because we're all relatively new to this game and what looks crazy to you might make sense to me. But no one is crazy we all make decisions based on or own unique experiences that seem to make sense to us in a give moment.

It's Just Who We Are

Doing well with money isn’t necessarily about what you know. It’s about how you behave. And behavior is hard to teach, even to really smart people. Money—investing, personal finance, and business decisions—is typically taught as a math-based field, where data and formulas tell us exactly what to do. But in the real world people don’t make financial decisions on a spreadsheet. They make them at the dinner table, or in a meeting room, where personal history, your own unique view of the world, ego, pride, marketing, and odd incentives are scrambled together. In The Psychology of Money, award-winning author Morgan Housel shares 19 short stories exploring the strange ways people think about money and teaches you how to make better sense of one of life’s most important topics.

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Personal Development

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Money & Investments

Morgan Housel is a partner at The Collaborative Fund. He is a two-time winner of the Best in Business Award from the Society of American Business Editors and Writers, winner of the New York Times Sidney Award, and a two-time finalist for the Gerald Loeb Award for Distinguished Business and Financial Journalism. He lives in Seattle with his wife and two kids.

Morgan Housel

The Psychology of Money

Your brain is like a muscle, and just like any other muscle, it needs regular exercise to stay healthy and strong. These seven tips will help you train your brain and keep it in top shape.

7 Ways to train your brain

Reading is a great way to exercise your brain. It helps improve your vocabulary, comprehension, and critical thinking skills. Read something every day, whether it's a book, a newspaper, or an article online.

First: Read Everyday

Writing down your ideas is a great way to exercise your brain. It helps you clarify your thoughts and develop your ideas more fully. Keep a notebook handy and jot down your ideas as they come to you.

Second: Write Down Ideas

Exercise is not only good for your body, but it's also good for your brain. It helps increase blood flow to the brain, which can improve memory and cognitive function.

Third: Exercise Regularly

Keeping a journal is a great way to exercise your brain. It helps you reflect on your thoughts and experiences, and it can also improve your writing skills. Try to write in your journal every day.

Fourth: Keep A Journal

Praying or meditating is a great way to reduce stress and anxiety, which can be detrimental to your brain health. It can also improve your focus and concentration, making it easier to learn and retain information.

Fifth: Pray Or Meditate

Solving puzzles, such as crossword puzzles or Sudoku, is a great way to exercise your brain. It helps improve your problem-solving skills and can also improve your memory.

Sixth: Solve Puzzles

Getting enough sleep is essential for brain health. It helps improve memory consolidation and learning, and it can also improve your mood and overall cognitive function.

Seven Sleep Well

Your brain is like a muscle, and just like any other muscle, it needs regular exercise to stay healthy and strong. These seven tips will help you train your brain and keep it in top shape.

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Career

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Exercise & Fitness

7 ways to train your brain

Personal growth is like the process of a flower unfurling its petals towards the sun. Allow yourself to nourish your being, cultivate your strengths, and embrace challenges. With each step you take, remember that you are blossoming towards your best self. Don't stop, keep growing!

Blossoming Towards Your Best Self

Wthin you lies unlimited potential waiting to be unleashed. Dare to explore your limits, challenge your fears, and pursue your dreams. Personal growth is found along the path of overcoming and achieving your goals. Trust yourself, take action, and unleash your true potential!

Unleashing Your Potential

Life is a constant journey of personal growth, filled with opportunities for self-discovery and transformation. Embrace the challenges, learn from the setbacks, and celebrate the victories. Every step forward, no matter how small, brings you closer to becoming the best version of yourself. Embrace the journey, for within it lies the power to unlock your true potential.

Embrace the Journey of Personal Growth

Embrace the power within you and rise above the ordinary. Personal growth is a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and continuous learning. Embrace challenges as stepping stones, embrace failures as lessons, and embrace successes as milestones. With each step forward, you unlock new levels of potential and thrive. Today, choose to embrace personal growth and unleash the greatness that resides within you.

Rise and Thrive: Embracing Personal Growth

Deep within you burns an untamed fire, yearning to be set free. Embrace personal growth as the catalyst to ignite your passions, expand your horizons, and unleash your true potential. Embrace the discomfort of growth, for it is within the flames of challenge that you discover your strength and resilience. Fuel your journey with determination, perseverance, and an unwavering belief in your ability to create the life you envision. It's time to fan the flames of personal growth and illuminate the path towards your extraordinary future.

Unleash Your Inner Fire: Ignite Personal Growth

Welcome to "Deep Growth" your ultimate destination for personal growth and self-empowerment. We are dedicated to providing you with valuable resources, insights, and guidance to help you unleash your full potential and live a fulfilling life. Cheers 🙌💯

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Strategy

Personal Growth

Without realizing it, we have created different versions of ourselves that define how we see and react to other people.
People only see the version of us that we want them to see.

We Are Who We Decided To Be

We master anger, envy, and other negative behaviors, and they slowly become who we are.The same way we have mastered these negativities, we have to master love.Still, many find it hard to accomplish this because of the hurt that we feel or the belief that it-is-impossible.

We determine our mastery

Fear is the enemy of growth.

As a person grows older, they lose their innocence, and hence, always try to follow societal beliefs.This distorts a person’s capacity to love.The same mind–limiting framework governs the way we relate with others.If an individual had an abusive relationship with their parents, they might find themselves gravitating towards abusive relationships, as they believe that being abused is the only way to get attention.

Mind-limiting Framework

Relationships must have their foundation in true love, and not in the need to get someone to validate our actions or to make us happy.

Relationship Needs Good Foundation

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

The quality of relationship depends on the attitude of all the parties involved.<ul><li>Love is respect. We should not control or change the people you love.</li><li>Love is always kind. In contrast, fear drives you to anger, which is basically a mask for fear itself.</li><li>Love embraces responsibility. If you love someone, you will never shy away from the responsibilities that the relationship places on you.</li><li>Love is unconditional. There is no reason to be ashamed of the people you claim to love.</li></ul>

Love Is…

We will only love a person that we don’t feel the need to change.Therefore, we must identify the strengths and the flaws of our partner, and accept them.Also, do not project our sadness on our spouse. Realize that everyone has our own baggage, and so, carry ours.

Accepting Is Important

People is addicted to love because they go into relationships for the wrong reasons.They know what loneliness and rejection mean. Therefore, as soon as they get a sniff of love, they jump at it.This will spur them to become obsessive. They are scared of returning to their state of loneliness.Instead of loving out of fear, we are advised to love ourselves first.Self–love will help us cherish being alone, which will stop us from jumping into a relationship for the wrong reasons.

The Wrong Reasons

If you have the ability to love, love yourself first.

When we start loving yourself more, it is easier to see the truth.It also becomes easy to block those lies that people keep telling us.We should uncover the truth to those lies we have always used to limit our growth.

Self-love

Study ourselves deeply and determine what works for us.Understand how we can break free of our past hurts.If someone keeps draining our energy, find a way to remove ourselves from that situation.

Learn Ourselves 

The Mastery of Love explains how we can turn hurt into a learning curve, including how to handle fear.

From the international bestselling author of The Four Agreements In The Mastery of Love, don Miguel Ruiz illuminates the fear-based beliefs and assumptions that undermine love and lead to suffering and drama in our relationships. Using insightful stories to bring his message to life, Ruiz shows us how to heal our emotional wounds, recover the freedom and joy that are our birthright, and restore the spirit of playfulness that is vital to loving relationships. The Mastery of Love includes: • Why “domestication” and the “image of perfection” lead to self-rejection• The war of control that slowly destroys most relationships• Why we hunt for love in others, and how to capture the love inside us• How to finally accept and forgive ourselves and others “Happiness can only come from inside of you and is the result of your love. When you are aware that no one else can make you happy, and that happiness is the result of your love, this becomes the greatest mastery of the Toltec: the Mastery of Love.” — don Miguel Ruiz__________________ About the Authors Don Miguel Ruiz is the international bestselling author of The Four Agreements (a New York Times bestseller for over a decade), The Four Agreements Companion Book, The Mastery of Love, The Voice of Knowledge, The Circle of Fire, and The Fifth Agreement. The teachings of Ruiz are best known for transforming complex human issues into simple common sense — a talent that has earned him millions of fans and international acclaim. Janet Mills is the founder and president of Amber-Allen publishing. She is also the coauthor, with don Miguel Ruiz, of six books in The Toltec Wisdom Series, creator of The Four Agreements for a Better Life online course, and editor of Deepak Chopra’s bestselling title, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success. Her life’s mission is to publish books of enduring beauty, integrity, and wisdom, and to inspire others to fulfill their most cherished dreams.

Don Miguel Ruiz is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Don Miguel Ruiz has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Don Miguel Ruiz's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

Don Miguel Ruiz

Janet Mills is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Janet Mills has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Janet Mills's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

Janet Mills

The Mastery of Love

Some of us need more space than others.  There’s nothing wrong with that, we just have boundaries we don’t like crossed and need more time to recharge from social interactions and group events.  Here’s how to find out if you’re one of these “boundary setters” who just needs a bit more personal space.

Introduction

The first of the signs you’re a “boundary setter” who needs personal space is that you trust your internal compass. This means that you set your iwn boundaries and don’t look to others to tell you what you should or should not want. Simply put, you trust your own judgment. As a “boundary setter” you’re not the type who follow others easily. You trust yourself and your perceptions and judgments.

1) You’ve learned To Trust Your Internal Compass

No matter how extroverted you are, you aware and know when you need a bit more time and space on your own to recharge. Not only are you not ashamed of asking for this, you don’t feel any weakness or embarrassment about asking for it. You trust what you contribute to a group and you deserve your time off and your own private space at times.

2) You Don’t Feel Guilty About Asking For Personal Space

Another of the key benefits and signs you’re a “boundary setter” who needs personal space is that your relationships experience a surge in honesty and wellbeing.  Far from being a relationship ender, being honest about needing space is actually a courageous thing to say.  A secure partner is not going to take this personally and if they know you well they will understand that this isn’t a personal issue or conflict but just the way you are wired.  <a href="https://hackspirit.com/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships/">Having boundaries in relationships </a>doesn’t mean you are avoidant attachment type or anything difficult, it just means that you may need more space than most and have limits about the amount of physical and emotional intensity you can stomach in one go.

3) You feel more secure in your relationships because you’re being honest

Next up is that you set boundaries for your recuperation and space after attending group events or gatherings.  Whether they were business or personal, you need your space after being around many people for too long.  You counterbalance group activities with time alone and that’s just the way it goes.

4) You Find You Need Time Alone After Group Events

The next of the signs you’re a “boundary setter” who needs personal space is that you enjoy socializing but you have limits about how much of it you want. In your personal life, you enjoy some deep and casual friendships, but you’re really not a social machine.  There are times when you would honestly rather chill with a glass of wine on your back deck than talk to the most fascinating person in the world.

5) You Enjoy Socializing, But Sometimes You Just Want To Chill

If you’re a “boundary setter” then you just need a bit more space than the average person. Knowing your limits is a big advantage in life, so never be afraid to ask for some space and meet your need for time alone.

11 Signs You're A "Boundary Setter" Who Needs Personal Space

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